Virtūs et Honos—meaning “Strength and Honor”—is often associated with the Roman soldiers, famously popularized in the movie Gladiator. While historical accuracy may suggest Roman legions were typically silent before battle, the sentiment behind these words remains powerful. Strength arises from honor, and this principle can serve as a guide in both life and goal-setting.
Strength Comes from Honor
When your goals are in harmony with your values, they draw strength from the clarity and authenticity of your intentions. As you work on something meaningful and purposeful, you unlock inner resilience. This alignment gives your efforts significance, making even the most difficult challenges worth overcoming.
Check Your Ladder Before You Climb
Before setting a goal, pause and reflect on your value system and higher purpose. As the saying goes, you may diligently climb the ladder of success only to find it is leaning against the wrong wall. Chasing success without considering your core values may lead to regret.
Stephen Covey, author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, suggests a profound exercise: meditate on your funeral and ask yourself how you’d like to be remembered by your spouse, children, friends, colleagues, and others. While this might seem morbid, it clarifies what truly matters to you. After all, what’s the value of immense wealth or achievement if it comes at the cost of your soul?
A Guide to Purposeful Goal-Setting
For a deeper dive into creating and achieving meaningful goals, my book The Goals Manual offers a step-by-step approach. From defining your vision to breaking down actionable steps, it’s a guide designed to help you stay true to your values while working towards success.
Embrace Virtūs et Honos—strength and honor—and let them guide you as you strive to achieve goals that truly matter.